of Children and Families, 2008, with updates. My mother who is my sons grandmother will not give my son back to me he has been with her for over a year now but the only reason is because I moved and he wanted to finish school with my mom we agreed. Trust me if this is the worst he has done, I can guarantee it can get much uglier. Now that I laid the foundation I will pose my question. The car seat is law, he has to get the right car seat or he will get a serious ticket that will cost a lot more than the proper car seat. Get an attorney on this and proceed forward otherwise you may find yourself in a battle as myself thinking you are dealing with someone who may still be civil yet has gone off the deep end a long time ago. If only all thought that way. Yes this is bad in its self. A .mass.gov website belongs to an official government organization in Massachusetts. Your best option is to file a motion in family court and notify the Judge that mother is consistently refusing to comply with the transportation provisions of the court order. You will need to file what is called a transfer of jurisdiction to have the case heard in Illinois. In fact I was paying him an extra $20 a month over what I was supposed to pay, and buying things for my daughter. IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!! Do I have to give them back to him on Thursday? We went out for a birthday gathering and the father was suppose to give the child a ride home and didnt. Court pending later this month. How does a father go about establishing a parenting plan and custody arrangements when nothing has been filed with the courts but the mother will not allow the father to see the child? He is refusing saying I am making him do it and wont sign. They are with him now and he is saying something happened with our son and he called social services again. He approached our car, told us that the other grandparents were out of town and started telling us that he figures since he is blood he could take him. From phone calls, texts, the days its your parenting time and you dont see your child. We always had primary custody even when she came out . Because the father isnt working to pay the support that probably isnt being used by the child but used for mom, who is oh-so busy, likely getting her nails done with that child support money? Just dont make it a war make it a family and it will all work out. Thank you for your help. This will get before a judge much quicker than waiting for a custody trial as it is required to be heard in lesst han 30 days in there is a threat posed (which sounds like it in your case). HELP PLEASE SOMEONE!!!! It is worth every dime (I think $19.00) just to track her down and your child! They usually interview my ex, and do nothing about this. You will need to document everything; dates, time and incident as this may need to be resolved in court. He changed the locks and didnt tell me, so I busted window out and did get some of my daughters clothes and toys. Show you have a good home for the child to visit and are educated on baby care. found any hint that it was anybody else. I cannot stress this enough; document, document, document. Am I right? What are my options?? He was never married to her mother and there has never been any ordered custody for either parent. The father of my son.has had tempory custody of him.for about eight months now..the reason he has custody is becauae he called dcf on me ..i was ordered to complete some task before i could regain.custody of my son..right before i finish all.of my task he up and moved to.idaho ..he was living in flordia prior to moving..is it legal for him to up and move without getting the courts approval.because it seems like no one seems to care that he lefted..when my son was three i moved to georgia but had to get permisson from the court before i moved..just wondering if what he did was legal. My parents live out of state, If I was to move to have help, would it be illegal? THANKS! One time he kept him for 4 months and the police wouldnt do anything about it. Got kicked out of one class. I have documentation, from the school, which states that while in Kindergarten my daughter was referred to Family Court for PINS for truancy. I have since found out from my son that my father has been leaving him home alone while he goes to the bar for up to 5-9 hours at a time, as well as telling him lies about me and attempting to alienating him towards returning to me. He changed his story over and over. Im not asking for excessive. "The importance to the children of one parent's advantage in relocating outside the Commonwealth is greatly reduced." I have filed for custody. However she is constantly fighting with me and calling me all sorts of names and talking down to me in front of my kids. And i know my daughter is a gift more than you will ever know especially everything that happened during my pregnancyespecially when at first he told me get rid of itbut she is here and all the struggles and the near losses i love her with all my heart and soul! Your very first approach will be to get legal advise and possibly file a contempt of court order. She comes up with excuses periodically to prevent my son from seeing his father. WaterPark? The step-mom who married a man with a not so nice ex. Oh yeah, my son and I are getting counseling with a domestic violence shelter, and he recently reported that he was sleeping in bed with his dad and his 3 girlfriends, all at the same time! What can I do? No one has tried to protect me or my children. First and foremost, this means . What will happen if custodial parent decides to call the police. Make sure you make a copy to keep for yourself. I WANT CUSTODY OF MY CHILDREN! My son going through this right now with his thirsty behind baby momma whom is still in love with him and she married. They are licensed by the state and work for the state, not you!!! Now if a third party is interfering and has association with one parent who may be interfering that parent is still guilty as they are culpable to the situation by not addressing the problem as to not directly effect them. Are they required to go with him this summer even though its not stated in our divorce decree. She continues to talk to this man that lives in WV, there is no custody agreement. I am not an attorney. He obviously cannot at this time seek to become the custodial parent. And they can not conduct a hearing without notifying both parties. CPS investigated, found nothing & ordered him to return her, but it took a week. I have joint custody with child mother, but i am primary custodial parent. The case is in Oregon what can I do to make the babysitter give me the information i am entitled to as their parent, and what can I do to stop my ex from taking my rights away. If there is no Custody established but the father has been unsuccessful in being allowed to see his son, what would the steps be to get visitation rights. Remember though this cannot be filed unless you have a court order of visitation and it has been violated. Since he has been following the rules and doing good for himself and the rest of us, will this arguement matter in court for custody? Remember, it will take more than a single event to convince that judge that your ex-spouse has been violating visitation or custody laws. Good luck and I hope to hear good news about things for your kids and even that she do the right thing for their behalf. of Family and Children Services in the county she resides in and tell them your concerns and file a formal complaint and they will go check it out. You had sex, so stop blaming or pointing fingers, and if you dont like the other parents current gf, bf, husband or wife, so what, no one said you have to like them!!!! Did I go to open house, parent-teacher conference, volunteer, etc. I went to the police station, clerks office, dispatch office and finally the sherriffs office. Peace be with you. I am not informed of appts and I have to file a motion for contempt of court order and a subpoena for the records because the CP nor the doctor will let me have his records or even talk to me about his treatment which is Adderall xr at a large dose for his age? even ran to Florida and was wanted for almost 2 years until she wrecked drunk and high AGAIN and was taken straight out of the hospital to jail again. Not every father is a piece of shit. His Lawyer made the schedule for him and sent it to my lawyer and said unles I apposed it that is what we would go by, so I agreed. Next morning we found out they were in a shifty motel where prostitute and drug dealers hang out . My children and I have other people who help with their everyday life (grandma), schooling (daycare), etc where their life could go on uninterrupted. This was missing from the Obamas Fathers day speech. My ex Mother in law has custody of my two children when the court My son even joined in the manipulation by friending me on FB just to block me three months later two weeks after that i received paperwork for court so now I know it was just to get information. My ex boyfriend has sole custody of both our boys ages 11 & 17 I only see them every other weekend . She left me because she doesnt want to compromise on anything and that is the only reason. just a txt saying have a great day I love you in the AM and a How was your day? call in the evening. is that true what the girls said. START READING UP THE STATUTES AND LEGISLATIONS IN THE JURISDICTION STATE ( where the divorce and visitation papers were filed ), and remember YOU CAN DO THIS YOUR SON NEEDS YOU, NO-MATTER WHAT YOUR EX SAYS! The school is almost a hour away from my house and he has been late a few times because of traffic. Im sorry you got upset. We live in utah, if my husband was to pick his daughter up and bring her to our house is there anything her mother could do about it? I feel work is much more important especially since Im the one who provides all their clothes, school supplies, etc. document everything keep a notebook with dates times and then file contempt charges if he keeps it up he will end up losing visitation and yes you might have to force the police with the child that is not his. Tonight my son was crying as i was pickin him up she shuts the door and locks it and wouldnt let me have him and told me ahe was calling law and that i couldbcouldnt have him until they got there which this is second time she has done this! I replied, I have paper work saying I am suppose to have her this moment and you are telling me there is nothing you will do. (720 ILCS 5/10-5.5) Sec. If the judge denied all these can I have a good cause to keep her??!! She was texting me on the 9th with her dads cell. He has been driving every other weekend waking up our little one at 6 am and try to make it by 10 with the traffic that sometimes is very long and awful. He was not physically abusive every day. Can I win the case? NOT TRUE! they arent telling me anything???????? He beat up his 7mo pregnant girlfriend at the time so baby that they baby almost died!!! I am the non-custodial parent of 4 minor children. The primary casualties in our Domestic Relations courts are our children. A solid pick-up order or Habeas Corpus for the child's recovery is very important, especially when the child is believed to be outside the jurisdiction. ?HOW MANY KIDS? Contemp papers were filed, he was held in contempt and so was his wife. Is there a way to get the court system here in NC to exercise jurisdiction over my son with him being here just under a month? Since 2004 when I was pregnant with our daughter he tried to commit suicide. Totally understood. I thought it wont work but i just tried to give As I said I am giving you my brief perspective on the little you devoulged. I live in NJ and would like to do humanitarin work with son who is almost 16. We have not filed any abandonment charges on him. The judge ruled in our favor and said she had no right and if she wanted to change the custodial rights she would have to go back to Texas where we were divorced. There are some other issues that are of concern. I went to the marital home several times in hopes to just talk person to person and maybe work something out but he was never there or wouldnt answer the door. No! Their father lives with his parents. Without a court order it will be very difficult for you to exercise visitation over Fathers objection. Like myself I get my son every other weekend and I do everything I can to be In his life. What a concept.! So the next day Symone came and she packed everything into her truck, during which I was feeling uncomfortable, because she had watched mine and bs son the night before, and had neglected to bring him with her now, because theres not enough room for all of yalls things and the carseat then she informed us she had an appt. I know I can file a criminal complaint per N.J.S.A. 720 ILCS 5/10-5.5. We have no other choice its no longer in the best interest of our son for us to be in his life its always a fight and a constant battle in front of him. How hard is it when one parent lives in one state and the other lives in another. Police actually will not get involved, rather will tell you it is a civil matter, go file a contempt charge. I also had to request a paternity test on my free will because my ex continuously was taking other men in for paternity but would never mention me so I called and requested one my self and the results were as I know 99.99 percent I was the father. 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